You're self-aware and you understand the importance of personal growth, but sometimes it feels like you're hitting a wall when it comes to your relationships. Your past hurt and disappointments have left you feeling like finding the right person is impossible. But I want you to know that you are not alone in this!
I get that you're someone who's used to taking charge and being in control, but sometimes, it's hard to let go in your romantic relationships. And the fears that come along with it can be so overwhelming - the fear of being rejected, not loved, or not accepted for who you are, and the fear of being alone or not finding the right person.
But my friend, you deserve to have a relationship that's both loving and empowering, where you can be your true, authentic self. You value emotional connection, communication, and mutual support, and that's not too much to ask for. Your desires for love, emotional connection, and companionship are yours for a reason - it’s because you’re meant to experience it.